"Yeah but what will my wife think?" | Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore India
Recently I was talking to a man. He's 37. Wife & 2 daughters at home.
"Bishal I want to really live my life my way, but I am worried what my in-laws will say. I am worried my own parents will not like me. I know that my wife would be surprised. I am worried what my wife will say. She will scold me."
I replied: "Your wife will scold you? For what? For living life with happiness."
There was an awkward silence while he broke the eye-contact and looked down at the ground.
He's 37.
T.H.I.R.T.Y. S.E.V.E.N, mind you.
Truth is MOST men today are like this.
They love the wife. But more than love--- they fear.
They respect the boss. But more than respect--- they fear.
They admire the kids. But more than admiration--- they fear.
Fear of losing love.
Fear of changing.
Fear the...unknown.
And as a result, most people in India have become approval-seeking machines.
"Wife, can I go meet my friends?"
"Boss, can I talk to the client?"
"Wife can I watch the football match?"
They're in a fine kettle of fish. (<<<---- do you know what that means?)
Nature takes its course and makes sure that these men don't live a long life. Sorry to say, but nature does right.
Most men are just fearful, approval-seeking, permission-begging creatures--- looking for OTHERS to instruct what to do.
And then they come and tell me: "I want to overcome stage fear."
Can they overcome STAGE FEAR? Oh absolutely!
But before that they need to ERASE this weak personality that they're being in their personal & professional lives.
You can't be confident on stage if you're fearful in front of your wife.
"Arey come on Bishal, you don't understand my wife. She's control-freak."
My answer to that would be: "Your wife is a control-freak because you've let her be that. You've taught her how to treat you badly...by accepting her bad behavior. day after day. No wonder she behaves this way."
If you're taking her trash in your heart while bowing with cap away, you're just digging your own grave. What else can I say?
I am all about family and good relationships. Understanding is good but tolerating bad behavior and being in high dudgeon? Nope, not for me.
I love this quote: Every next level of your life will demand a different you. - Leonardo DiCaprio
You should have love & respect for your wife. For your kids. For your parents. And also, you should get good behavior from them too. Same thing goes for your relationships at office with colleagues & friends. Be a good human being. You don't have to act high & mighty but you must be treated with honor.
Learn to be a REAL MAN. There are very few real men in this world today.
We need REAL MEN...to speak the TRUTH.
We need REAL MEN...to impact other people.
We need REAL MEN...to transform the world for the better.
Are you ready to become one? Are you REALLY ready?
For past 12 years, I've a real-world public speaker & life mastery mentor who has been speaking on stages around the world for some of the biggest companies including Microsoft, Apple, CISCO etc. Many of the fortune 500 companies in the world hire me to train their TOP LEADERS to help them achieve MORE personally & professionally to help them increase their confidence, productivity and profit WHILE maintaining top-notch balance in life. These companies don't hire small-time speakers to experiment, they choose the BEST because they want REAL-WORLD PRACTICAL RESULTS.
If you want to have me TRAIN you personally for next 12 months, let me know I will add you to the waiting list.
Truth is that it's COSTING you a lot NOT to be a part of my high-level mentoring group where I personally help you day in and day out to solve your problems and to help you move to a life to freedom.
I mean, on a daily basis you're stuck with problems where my clients are getting solutions.
On a weekly basis you have conflicts where my clients are solving relationship issues.
Every year you're stuck in your career where my clients are becoming CEOs.
How much longer do you want to be struggling like this?
How many more years?
About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “Mr. PRACTICAL”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s “Present like a Champ Boot Camp”, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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